Now, it is no longer a secret. The garden, that is. 😉
And who Brian is. 😀
I met him when I was selected to be one of the study patients of a research at the Asian Eye Institute. It was an answered prayer – for my eyesight to be healed. I have God to be extremely grateful for with this blessing. And yet, the “package” did not stop there. Little did I know that I am soon to be partnered with my nurse in this thing which we call “love.” Oh Father God, You are indeed the great matchmaker and composer of everything. 🙂
Okay, now this is the part where it gets cheesy and cheesier. You might as well grate me or just allow yourself to be melted away. 😀
I waited for 2 years before God has given him to me. That was a long wait, for me. But the wait never really mattered. Because I was passionately driven in pursuing a personal relationship with God and in serving Him in those two years that I was not in a relationship with anyone. That should be what comes first – serve God, find your mission and then find your mate.
I was more than amazed when just a few weeks of being friends , I can tell that we are match-made to be partners. *ehem* Oh really now, Tin. 😉 Kidding aside, exactly the qualities I asked for and every time I make that exciting discovery, I can’t help but smile a very amused smile and think, “My Father, You and Your ways never fail to amuse me though I am completely thrilled for what else You have in store for us.” Brian though is never perfect. He has his own weaknesses and personal struggles same as I am. We are all a work in progress when it comes to being the persons that God wants us to be. But we both rejoice in what is good, in what we have learned, in learning and where we are happy the most – pure and genuine happiness because we know it makes our God happy too.
I know that if I am to list down all the qualities, it will be endless. But just to name a few that really stood out when we were just getting to know each other, I’ll give a brief rundown:
- We both love the color blue.
- We love viands that are not sweet.
- We prefer communing with nature than spend long hours at the mall.
- We love the simple things.
- And lastly, we enjoy each other’s company.
Now, that last part is the one thing that I love the most. Why? Because it only means I could get to be who I am when I am with him. We don’t care if we look silly at times or if we crack the silliest jokes mindless of other people who would think we are being overly “corny” or hilarious. No pretensions so to speak. He accepts my eccentricities (mildly put, not exactly the medical term) and vice versa. The same as our relationship with God. We have to be as sincere and as open to Him as possible, connecting every single moment of your life with Him from the moment you wake up until the time you lay your head down the pillow. A personal, loving and lasting relationship – that is how you get to know Him more.
And that is how I got to know Brian more – a personal moment at a secret garden (that is not really secret because it is well-known among the locals and tourists alike. 🙂 ).
The place is very memorable to me. I have always been in love with gardens. They are my places of solace and comfort. I feel calm, at ease and more at peace with myself when I am surrounded by the best that nature could offer – simplicity.
Though I dressed up too “colorful” for the date making me look like one of the flowers at the garden and making me wish I’d never worn something as vibrant as that, I pretty much enjoyed the ambiance of the place. It is very RELAXING. I didn’t skip that opportunity to take more photos of literally anything I could lay my eyes on.
And yes, though they offer their menu in buffet style, you won’t feel “heavy” afterwards nor feel guilty of having eaten too much. Why? They serve vegetarian dishes. Most of their dishes are very light and their pastas are not heavy on herbs and spices. Just a little bit of them to tease your palate. You have an option if you will have white or red sauce. Of course, how could I forget how Brian and I made fun of the chamomile hand wash/sanitizer because I thought it is just for decor of some sort or I will wash my veggie food there and I had to ask the waiter what is it used for (oh if embarrassment could kill, I’d be dead already. 😀 ). But it smells SOOO GOOOD!
I also love how they kept our bread warm. They rolled it in a piece of cloth (linen, I presume) and served it in a basket along with the spread and other spices. Oh I love their salad dressings and spread too! But just a piece of caution to those of you who are not veggie lovers, they offer quite A LOT of greens in their dishes. I am a veggie lover so I enjoyed making that munch and that crunch in my every bite of their salads. And to end it all, a nice serving of chocolate cake and tarragon tea.
Overall comment? It was a very happy and relaxed eating indeed. 😀
I adored every nook at Sonya’s garden. Aside from the restaurant, they also have the Panaderia, and a store where you could buy goodies, memorabilia and pasalubong for your friends and family. It is also a very suitable place for wedding receptions as they have a separate private venue for that near the restaurant.
I wished for my own home someday to be surrounded by lots of greenery too. Like what we also have in our home in Bicol. I believe it is what makes every home a home – it looks natural, no too much synthetic ornaments.
Just like our relationship with God – you are more at ease with Him when it is genuine. 🙂
Every love story is created differently. But the one thing that they should all have in common is this – God at the center.
I believe I have to end this “date” on this note for now to save some memories for Brian and I to cherish. I hope you would give us that privilege. 😉
And this too, a poem which I made especially for him. 😀
We ended the date by watching Ronin 47. Yes, how could I ever forget the last lines. Just the perfect cheesy but romantic lines to end this cheesy but romantic article. 😀
Kai (Keanu Reeves): I will search for you through 1000 worlds and 10000 lifetimes!
Mika (Ko Shibasaki): I will wait for you in all of them.
(Thank you so much for the wonderful time, for the lunch treat and movie date, baby! I love you so much!)