What other people think and say about you are not important. What’s important is who you are in the eyes of God.
Tough situations and experiences teach us to be resilient and yet they also teach us to be tough. This becomes a danger when being tough has developed in us an attitude of insensitivity, self-centeredness, and callousness a.k.a. cold hearted, selfish and prideful.
They say, do not let circumstances change you.
I say, let God define you to the world. 🙂
“I praise You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Wonderful are your works; my soul knows it very well.” – Psalm 139:14